Today she would have been 54 years old. Cynthia Rene Spears Davila. All of my friends still have both of their biological parents living. Most spend quite a bit of time with them. I wonder what I would have turned out like with that kind of support. Would I be more or less successful? Would I be more or less happy? Would I have a family of my own? Would she be proud, disappointed, detached, over involved in my life? These are the types of questions I have. I’m pretty sure I don’t care. I hope you all call, write or email your mother today. Tell her you love her, because tomorrow isn’t promised today. Even better, send your mother flowers. Moms like flowers.